The holidays run on the assumption that someone will absorb the difference — the gap between what a gathering requires and what anyone actually has to give. Someone closes it. If you’re reading this, you already know who that someone tends to be.
This is a working session, not a pep talk. We’ll go through what the season actually costs you in capacity, not money. Which obligations are load-bearing and which ones you inherited by default and never questioned. What to do when you’re operating at forty percent in a room full of people acting like you’re at ninety. How to decline something without it becoming the story of the year. And what happens when you show up as who you are now, in front of people who were attached to the version of you that never said no.
We’ll also plan for January, because that’s usually when the bill arrives and almost nobody sees it coming.
Bring your actual November. Not the one you’d rather be discussing — the specific dinner, the specific phone call, the specific person.
What’s included:
Live session with Q&A.
The Holiday Survival workbook — your obligations, your capacity, and your actual plan, filled in before you get there.
Full recording and transcript, yours to keep.
Pricing:
Open to everyone.
Premium subscribers, 50% off.
Founding members, free.
We are thrilled to welcome you into the room for $49.
For a 50% Discount or Free Access, consider becoming a member.
This is an add-on to the fall season, not part of it. Come if it’s useful. Skip it if your November is already full — the recording will be there for all registrants and included in the Founding Member Library.



