“Let me know if you need anything” is kind. It also hands the hardest part right back to you.
This tool turns asking into one sentence: one task, one time, one person. You’ll build your own ask, write scripts for the real people in your life, line up a steady person for one hard event, and know what to do when the answer is no.
It grows out of Chapter 7 of When You’re Too Numb to Cry, with room to write your own versions.
Start with something small. One ask counts.
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