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Spiraling Into Control - Read With Me: Book Introduction
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Spiraling Into Control - Read With Me: Book Introduction

My Book Launch + the 22-Episode “Read With Me” Companion Podcast (Spiraling Into Control)


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📖 Spiraling Into Control Coming Out March 6
🎧 Read With Me — Chapter-by-chapter companion audio: https://www.laurentobey.com/readwithme
📱 The Spiral App — $97 lifetime access: https://www.laurentobey.com/spiralapp   
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About This Episode

Lauren announces her book Spiraling Into Control releases Friday, March 6, 2026, and shares why this episode differs from the prior four. After turning in the final manuscript, she realized there was more she wanted to say, so she created a 22-episode chapter-by-chapter companion podcast called Read With Me to listen to after each chapter (not an audiobook). She explains how the framework came after living the experience, why “Phoenix Rising” evolved into a spiral model (Ashes, Ember, Flame, Rise), and how the companion show will unpack behind-the-scenes stories and additional nervous system and trauma science while she shares launch details, links, and Instagram Lives on release day.


Timestamps

00:00 Big Book Announcement

01:36 Read With Me Companion

03:44 How To Use It

07:39 Origin Story Framework

12:03 Phoenix To Spiral

15:14 Writing With Precision

17:53 Nerdy Science Deep Dives

20:21 What I Hope Lands

21:57 Launch Details And Goodbye


About The Spiral Podcast

The Spiral Podcast is where the work breathes out loud. Each episode expands what the writing opens — through lived experience, nervous system science, and the kind of conversation that happens at the kitchen table after the kids are asleep. Hosted by Lauren Tobey, author of Spiraling Into Control and creator of The Spiral Framework.

New episodes every Tuesday.


Keywords

nervous system, trauma, spiraling, The Spiral Framework, Ashes, Ember, Flame, Rise, survival mode, nervous system regulation, complex trauma, cPTSD, identity erosion, relational trauma, high-functioning, polyvagal, nervous system states, Lauren Tobey, Spiraling Into Control


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